Remote Control iPhone, iPod Touch Music Player From Your Mac Or Windows PC
Now here is an app that works exactly opposite of Apple’s Remote app. Called Bowtie (no clue as to the name!), this $0.99 app lets you control the music player on your iPhone or iPod Touch from your computer.
Say you have docked your iPod to a stereo system and enjoying surfing the net on your PC while listening to your favorite songs. Bowtie comes of great help in such situations; it lets you skip songs, pause the music for a while, or replay the tracks, all without ever leaving your desktop. Basically, a remote music player application for your device.
The app has a desktop counterpart. So you will need to install either the Mac or the Windows version on your Computer, which is available for free.

Download Bowtie (iTunes link)
Compatible with iPhone and iPod Touch; Requires iPhone OS 3.0 or later.
Download Bowtie companion app for Mac (OSX 10.5 or later)
Download Bowtie companion app for Windows 7/Vista/XP
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